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Sunday, April 30, 2006

Last nite was horrible...Man u lost n cound bear to see chelsea lifting the trophy up...Suren n me wanted to go to teh town but the prob;em is Starwbeery Park hotel located at the top of the hill...so we cant hire a car to druve around...we decide to walk down the hill...they told us it will take 20 mins to go down but we walked walked in the late nite...and we cound see the town area ata ll...we returned back to the looby..lucky we didnt lost inthe darkness...It was abt 12.30 bothe pf us didnt want to sleep n there's nothing we could do in tere...the rest were sleeping only the Boss and his frinds were having some drinks at the Karokoe...I took suren to my room and we chit chat for up to 4 am n he left to his room.Im all alone damn bored we have to be ready by 7 for breakfast...Gd ppl tehy woke me up for prayer...

Woah i had heavy breakfast...and Ganesan an Nash who are in thier 30s really joker...best some gd times with them...Next stop is Tea Plantation..its started by the early settler of Indians and everything tere is onwed and run by Indians...Nash talkd to one of the pretty indian lady workign in the sovenior shop and he made me took photo with her...she is full of smile in that...
Then we went shopping...Suren n me had NAAN which we couldn get in Singapore...Starwberry Naan...its awesome..so tempting...After that swe stopped at Flower gardens.....n yeah since im in love with roses,hmmm i took lots of different roses...and suren soong hav gone mad they were like professionals taking all the flowers pic...wierd guys....
Next stop strawberry park...everywhere its strawberry...so nice but also sick n headache as i nvr slept the previous day...
Lucnh was light..later i update again....

Hiaz thers nothing much of sightseeing...all we did was shopping shopping shopping...but nothing interset me at all....just stroll around tere n here ntake pic of others ...

Dinner was ok...steamboat and whatever suren thrown in well its end up on my plate...he was pale abt it and in teh end everyone shocked as i drank 3 raw egss at 1 time...easy man...It's geting colder in here so its kind of nice feeling...all teh guys ganged up and played crads...and the nites went out smotthly...but nothing interesting at all..

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Saturday, April 29, 2006

Allahu...Horiible la the trip...
1st day in here...took 7 hrs to reach here...and the timw i reached its alomost 7 pm..Eacs top they made i had gd time for prayers n makan only...n when i reeached here...we nvr book inside the room but supposed to have dinner 1st...so i asked for prayer room and this ppl so nice they gave me conference room to pray(very nice indeed)but thelll the trip to here is so tiring...wrost then geting into genting higland...i almost vomited out of giddyness...
tHE THING WE DID AFTER DINNER....SOCCER..CHELESA VS MAN U...BLOODY HELL CHELSEA SPOLIT MY DAY...
The best part im supposed to sahre the room with kumran but he didnt turn up n yes the whole room is mine now...i have to sleep alone....n to my suprise,its classic,i mean big room,bathup fridge.woah so cool......
Only thing there's no aiswarya or asin or sailaja to shae the room with u...
Haiz ...rose......i have roses in by bag....

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Friday, April 28, 2006

Today's 2 encounetr with my frinds...1st will kevin...2nd will eb ansari

kevinis stressd tht he cant go to interview as his 2hrs off is cancelled..somuch of fustration that he actually depressd n pushed all the work(nice work buddy.he asked me drink,i said OK thinking maybe in coffeshop or someother places but he called for wine and beer,i was like quiet angry n told him i don drink those stuff...
he is so pissed and said are u gay or sissy,ur a guy come on lets go for drink...i said no.then he said lets go pub or club,i replied no..he pissed of n went back to his table...all ic ould do show him nice smile n i explained why i said no...
this my explantion..HE finally accepted it,,,

As a muslim its haram to drink alcohol,everyone knows that.In my 25 years of live i have nvr stpped in a pub or club.I dint even had the interest in the 1st place to bother whats in tere.The best part i hav so many clubing frinds who nvr really called me for clubing cuz they knew me well.Yeah not all clubing ppl drinks,they go for dancing,so no harm rite....hmmm put it in this way..clubs does provides drinks,no mater how much we say we don drink,thers saithan in tere and as far asi have learned,we should move away from saithan(our iman has to be strong)and ppl around us will be drunk n be dancing also...
Come on as a muslim we know its harm,so stay away from it,even its smells of alcohol.....any clubiing mates or frinds reading this sry
i hav regretd many things i have doen it in the past eventhough i know its sin,n im only i knew how much hurts that i hav brought upon myself.
So i know its harm being in tere and im sick to it,because its me who in the end gona answer everytiing of my deeds to HIM....HE'S GONA ASK ME,DID U EVER STPEP IN A CLUB AND DANCE BUT WITH THE SMELL OF ALCOhOL EVENTHOUGH U DON DRINK.......

2ND ENCOUNTER WITH ANSARI,MET HIM MOSQUE...
he married his sweetheart last year n he is none other than my childhood buddy...
Ansari..aslamualikum
syed...walikumsalm wrb
ansari...how's work?
syed...as usal!did majun came heer?
ansari...no idead,he didnt call me at all..
syed...he have to be here somewhere..
ansari...hey syed ur body looks gd,doing alots of gym workout
syed...ya its tough gainig wt ...
ansari...no need la after marriage u will be like me
syed...like you....im looking at his tummy...meanwhile he scartcing his big tummy..
ansari...yah after marriage so much of virurnthu(makan at gels relative home)
syed...ahahaha
ansari...ist tough reducng my tummy now...
syed...but its ok as ur arms are bigger...
ansari...don give up ur workouts as i can see the improvement in urself...
syed...its isnt easy...
ansari...but u has no problem rite,u eat alot or not u still look slimer
syed..i wana put on wt...
ansari...wana be little elephant isit?
syed....u callign urself little elephant....
ansari....lets go in...

morale of the conversation...guys don be plum neither don be skinny...lets hav musular body..full of muscles....i feel hungry and kamilah sis is not offering her yogurt....:(

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Yesterday had gd chating with kamilah sis...the reason she gave for her headache is really laughable...and the part where she inclued her ambereen inside init..hahah...insah allah u will get what u desired...ambereen is baby gerl rite?Hope im rite init....
Ok talking of ambereen i realised so many of my brothers n sisters are gona settle down soon by marriages..one fellow Ansari already married last year...
Thats thats means...hey from the status of brother to all the ppls i know,im going to be uncle to thier kids...oh man...imagining hundreds of kids calling me uncle uncle uncle:(...actually nothing to be woorried of...hey peeps try to have many kids ok..i try to baby sit them...maybe i open small childcare for them..Uncle's childcare centre...Each kids atmitted will get free admission for his or her siblings in teh future....
Lat nite skipped schl went tharga,its flag lowering day in tere,so much ladies in tere,and all like crows,cant even digest them in tere don know why...
my trip to cameron highland,well nvr pack anything yet...hav to rush back n do all the stuff...3 days in tere...hope it will better for me...

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Thursday, April 27, 2006

Woah..last nite b4 sleeping i was listening to this song,Maniley Maniley from the movie Mallai and i wished it should rain tomorw.i realy fall in love with that song and ya who dont like rains?I woke up for subuh prayer,its started to rain,so coool then i wished it should rain again,and i when i left my home for work,its still raining,hippyyyyyyy,im not a lazy person to carry umberlla,so tere i goes in my office attire to get wet.IT'S SO AWESOME ISINT IT GETING WET IN THE RAIN.Rains are send by GOD so we should be lucky to enjoy it.I forget to wish to hav sailaja dance n sing with me in the rain:(,i forgot to wish that man,so tere im all alone strolling to MRT slowly on my own,sining I LOVE YOU SAILAJA SAILAJA SIALAJA,I LOVE YOU SAILAJA SIALAJA SAILAJA......I HAV GONE CRAZY ......

MANITHANAIVIDAYUM MALAITHULI UYARNTHATHU ITHUVARI PURIYAVILLAI....
(RAIN DROPS ARE GREATER THAN HUMANKIND)

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Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Damn bored and stressed man...that fellow kev ran to next office and to my own knowledge all the documts to this particular company....im faxing to thier operation section..instaed to thier offices..and its like 1 week im doing that..such an moran....Hey My god sis..the oldest of all jalila akka is back form pakistan..she loved and married Paksiatni and she went for 1 month trip tere with her kids nima...she promised if nima is old..she will get married her to me:( actually im old now...had greattime emailing her as we comunitace thorugh emails,where she told the life of pakistan ladies..but i pity her as her hubby had gd qualification from tere but not recognised in here.
Itsthe same in India also,people studies tere but its not recognised in here at all,thats very bad,and my frind ajaml in India who completed some kind of degree a married this singapore gerl who completed JC IN HERE...but to my knowledge she has stay put in India as he didnt get Identiy card ....i don underatand something...guys go tere marry can get thier wifes all kinda of documents but gerls who went tere marry..they don get the documenst that easily for the guys n to make it wrost ..thier qualification is nothing in here..some peeps says they can buy the qualifictaion in tere...actually YES..

akka welcome back singapore and to your job in that old office...

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Finaly my last 2 module starting...cant wait to finish that idiotic modules.Its bad day i guess,alrady woke up late cuz nite didnt sleep and whenever pray thahajud...mind isnt peaceful at al..then thre's no sleep at all too..In work,kevin throw a bomb saying he gna quit,my god that means left with me todo all the stuff and when abt to leave for schl,great,heavy rain,well im lazy punk to carry umberella,and yah inst it wonderful toget wet in the rain?Reached on time be class start but didnt buy the books,actually didnt have the heart to buy the books,believeing farook and zawid will be siting with me,but to y suprise both idiots didnt turn up at all...1st day of class they skipped.And to stress me ot i sat that the front,looking at Mr L,,,(seeing him for the past 1 year makes me sick..so blankly i looked at him and asusal he startd all the....One ponit of time he asked an gd question...where does this JIC came from...since im his old student he asked me...and yeah as ppl knows me im always in dreamland sending sms to frinds..so didnt knew what to reply,but he knew i don have book,so its obvious its wasnt from the book,and i jokingly said Sir,isnt that from your mouth...there went whole the class lauhing...poda im not attending ur class on thrusady...

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Monday, April 24, 2006

Sunday's tamil movie suri was quiet ok..the story line..suri and a gerl loved each other n they played game of sepration for 1 year but during that 1 year peroid they gerl got into accident n she becomes mad and married to someone..but suri thought he was decived by the grl n look for revenge by killing her..Suri;s charcter from soft loving gentle guy turn in to hanibal whoes thinking all abt killing his ex lover..

Lets be honest guys..if a guy break up a gerl there should be only 2 reasons..eiter he seen a much prettier gerl or he lacks confident in himself.Thers no other reason he could come off..if a gerl break uo there could be hundreds of reason behind it (i don have to state all in here)

i am not gona say guys shows true love than gerls or gerls shows true love beter than guys but as far as i know bothe parties get hurt...its like an learning lesson in life in knowing ppl and also abt ourself..But as a guy tere are guys out there who will hurt gerls if they brak up...its in thier brain...that they cant accpet the defeatness...Sr for those type of guys...Beter to hurt urself then the loved ones...

Once again with the movie,suri wanted revenge but when he realsed the gerl is no longer normal n a mental lady wh cant rember her past,he wpt like a baby n said he is inhuman.But in the end he accpted her n marry her,well thats guys.No matter how gerls find us heartless or useless we will be tere even we acted inhumanly.I may be wrong but the turth is guys have heart also..Anyone say yes with me init?

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Sunday, April 23, 2006

1. Capri
Italy's most glamorous getaway, the island of Capri is one of the most picturesque islands around. With white-washed villas shrouded in bougainvillea, cliffs reaching up from the sea, and medieval alleyways winding through romantic villages, Capri's charms are unwavering, even in the crowded summer months. Accessible only by boat, the tiny island on the Bay of Naples, off the Amalfi Coast, attracts jet-setters and glitterati who flock to the Piazzetta, just as Audrey Hepburn and Jackie Onassis did when they helped popularize the island in the 1950 and '60s. The island is also home to mysterious natural wonders, like the massive rock formations of Faraglioni and Blue Grotto, an underground sea cave that continues to awe visitors with its brilliant, almost iridescent waters.

2. The Hamptons
Long stretches of sand, seaside villages, sprawling vineyards, and grand estates...the Atlantic-facing Hamptons are simply spectacular come summer and the perfect antidote to bustling New York City, just 120 miles away (approximately). Whether busing in on the Hamptons Jitney or flying in by helicopter, droves of Manhattanites clear out of town each Friday afternoon in anticipation of some sun, R&R, and mingling with the rich-and-famous who make the nightlife one of the best on the East Coast. Most visitors head to one of four areas: colonial Southampton, the old-money neck of the woods, with high-priced boutiques on chic Job Lane; elegant Bridgehampton, where you can sample wine from nearby vineyards and join the upper crust for the prestigious Hampton Classic Horse Show (Labor Day weekend) and Mercedes-Benz Polo Challenge (mid-July–mid-Aug.); hip East Hampton, popular with the new-money arts and media crowd, including Martha Stewart, Jerry Seinfeld, and Sean "Puffy" Combs (who all maintain homes here); and, finally, Montauk, favored by yachters and fishermen for its boating community and abundant catch.

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3. Greek Islands
Scattered in the sparkling Aegean Sea, the Greek Islands are a much-fantasized-about summer hotspot, with Europeans and Americans alike flocking to their dazzling shores for hedonistic fun in the sun. All the islands have something different to offer but no self-respecting island hopper can skip two of Greece's most beloved: Santorini and Mykonos. The volcanic isle of Santorini is renowned for its magnificent scenery of white-washed houses and blue-domed churches, the lot of it accented by beaches of dark-red and black volcanic sands; backpackers and billionaires climb the steep winding road to the cliff-top town of Fira for postcard-perfect views. On the island of Mykonos, meanwhile, homage is paid to Dionysus—the Greek god of revelry. While Mykonos also has immaculate white villages with winding cobblestone streets, it's the nightlife that draws visitors here; beach bars turn up the music as the sun sets and, before you can say oopah!, dancing and drinking takes over the sand. The party continues into the wee hours, with waterfront bars and hidden alcoves pouring plenty of ouzo as dawn breaks.

4. London
London is never more animated than in the height of summer, when fair weather brings out the best in Londoners, who endure an infamously gloomy weather forecast the rest of the year. Eating, drinking, and all around merry-making abound, with a slew of events ranging from outdoor theater and music shows to special exhibitions and oddball festivals. The royal city parks, including Hyde or Regent's, overflow with sunbathers and picnickers, who come to enjoy the lush greenery and English garden splendor, like the magnificent Queen Mary's Rose Gardens in Regent's Park. Stick around after sunset for your own mid-summer night's dream—twilight Shakespeare performances unfold, alfresco, in Regent's Park (May-Sept) throughout the summer months.
5. Montreal
Montreal's joie de vivre is most visible in summer, when festivals and celebrations light up the town and droves of locals and visitors take to the streets to join the fun. Eleven days of non-stop musical entertainment, otherwise known as the Festival International de Jazz de Montréal, enlivens the city annually in early July; streets get closed down and over 350 free outdoor concerts delight the ears of music aficionados. Also in July, downtown Montreal hosts the world's largest comedy festival, Just for Laughs, featuring some 1,000 performances from top-name comics who are bound to keep you in stitches. Even if you happen to visit in between festivals, summer is simply a fine time to hang out at an outdoor café and people-watch under the warm sun.

6. National Parks
Summer and the great outdoors go hand and hand, and the outdoors just don't get much greater than in our national parks. The US counts 388 of them, and you could easily spend a weekend hiking any of them. Of course, two of the most spectacular ones—the Grand Canyon and Yosemite—offer more than hiking. One of the Seven Wonders of the World, the Grand Canyon is truly a sight to behold: A vast abyss of multi-hued canyon walls stretching some 277 miles long and as much as a mile deep, the Grand Canyon was sculpted over millions of years by the pulsating Colorado River. Another gem, Yosemite National Park is a preserve of breathtaking Sierra Nevada valley-and-mountain scenery, jutting granite rock formations, giant sequoia trees, and magnificent cascading waterfalls. For hikers, bikers, or white-water rafters, or simply those who prefer to appreciate the views, these pristine land reserves are meccas for nature-lovers.

7. New England
New England truly springs to life between the July 4 and Labor Day holidays, when a vibrant summer culture produces a mind-boggling array of special events in the region's many maritime and mountain towns and historic cities. Out-of-towners snatch up beach houses on the Cape and cottages at inland lakes, and spend their vacations perusing antique shows, old-fashioned county fairs, arts-and-crafts festivals, and, of course, traditional New England lobster fests and clam bakes. Cultural types head off in search of top summer festivals, like the famed Tanglewood Music Festival in the Berkshires (July-Aug.), while outdoorsy folks soak up ocean scenery by hiking and biking the Outer Cape or by sailing windjammers in Camden and yachts in scenic Marblehead. Strolls through quaint towns like Stockbridge, immortalized in Norman Rockwell's paintings, serve up quintessential Main Street U.S.A., while opportunities for scenic drives abound, like along Newport's Ocean Drive. Or, if you're looking to throw back a cold one or sip a martini at a beach bar, you can't do better than P-Town (more formally known as Provincetown), the Cape's most happening summer nightlife scene.

8. Russia
Notorious for its long, frigid winters, summer shines an entirely different light on Russia, particularly on its thriving cultural capitals of Moscow and St. Petersburg. While the sunny season is short (flurries can be seen as late as May or as early as September), Russians know how to make the most of it, hosting a magical mix of alfresco festivities and events. During the white nights of summer in these Russian cities, dusk is simultaneously greeted by dawn, and as such, you can gaze at the Kremlin and majestic Red Square or stroll the Nevsky Prospekt well into the wee hours of the morning without the help of streetlights. St. Petersburg commemorates the white nights phenomenon during the weeks surrounding the summer solstice, when the Stars of the White Nights Festival (mid-May–mid-July), an acclaimed celebration of music, dance, and opera, is held in the city's famous Mariinsky Theatre. During this summertime time warp, when the sun virtually never sets, midnight and later are as good a time as any to plan a picnic or take a cruise along St. Petersburg's Neva River—you may even get to see the aptly named Summer Palace, the home of Peter the Great in the mid-1700s, nearby.
9. Scandinavia
While you'd have to be a thick-skinned Viking to make it through a Scandinavian winter, happily, you needn't be much more than a reveling vacationer with a good pair of sunglasses during the summer months. Scandinavia is a sizzling summer destination, where the northerly latitude of this country fivesome—namely, Norway, Denmark, Sweden, Finland, and Iceland—translates to unending daylight hours during summer. Head out on a midnight whim to go hiking, biking, or white-water rafting in Norway's exquisite wilderness, composed of stunning fjords, majestic mountains, glistening glaciers, and serene valleys. Visit the Danish cultural capital of Copenhagen and stroll through the lovely Tivoli Gardens, or head to magnificent Stockholm, to check out traditional Swedish folk music and traditions at Skansen, where a jovial Midsummer festival (late-June) is also held to celebrate the lightest night of the year. Or, you may prefer to simply soak up the animated nightlife of beer gardens and street musicians that lingers well into the night in Iceland's lively capital of Reykjavik. There are tons of other special summer events scheduled, as well, ranging from midnight marathons to gay pride parades to cultural events—try the Helsinki Festival (late-Aug.–early-Sept.), for example, when the Finnish capital lets loose with music, theatre, dance, visual arts, film and more before autumn comes around.

10. Upper Peninsula, Michigan
If city-living gets too hot, pack up some marshmallows, hot dogs and camping gear and head to the refreshing Upper Peninsula of Michigan, where majestic wildlife, unspoiled rivers, waterfalls and dense forests abound. Blessed with some 1700 miles of shoreline along three of the Great Lakes—Superior, Michigan and Huron—it should come as no surprise that fishing, canoeing, and camping are prime activities here, with moose, bears, and beavers as common companions. The region's strong Native American and French Canadian heritage are experienced everywhere as well; enclaves with names like Sault Ste-Marie and bridges like the Mackinac hearken back to the days of the earliest settlers. You'll probably feel like one of North America's earliest explorers yourself as you paddle the waterways here and set up camp in the woods.

hmmmmm anyone interested in travelling....

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Saturday, April 22, 2006

B4 i gout of my home,my mom did said,"why not stay home n rest,u been out for work n tharga,don you wana spend time with us" later only i realised i should have listend to her n shoudnt have met rizan n majun.Both are manga madiyans,nothing beter to do then teease n distrub me..they r so gd init that i at times will be ALLAH when i can run away but i still choose to be with them,don ask why,i don know but maybe still thinking one day they will undersatnd me.This time they went too personal n teased lot and i do know if they don do it they wont get enough sleep.Actually we guys met to sign up in Carlofonia Fitness centre.Its wonderful place to train up and the Custoemr Service Oficer David was cool took us around and to my luck i get to talk to Fitness Trainer Stella.To my suprise her 1st sentence made me realised how gd she sis.She said Syed u not having gd sleep dont you.I was liek ya how u knw it,well can see that from ur eye circles.Opps its obvious now that ppl can see it.But Rizwan N Majun got into male fitnes trainer so they wasnt happy abt it at al...I siged up for 3 months,that alot of money but i wana make the fear in me out..so i signed out n the other 2 signed for 2 weeks free trail.So i have to be tere atleast 3 ties a week if not its not worth so much money...But the place in somerest is awesome...

After tahat they both had great time teasing on me...i mean distrub me..or irriate me...i don know...im like laugingstock for them....i don blame them..i lived like that...Thought fo goin siti mariam tharga..but but no heart also to travel...saw few indian guys while travlling in mrt....they are so cool singing n dancing....all i could is to look at them with envy...

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Friday, April 21, 2006

hmmm damn stressd and bored,received a email abt relationship,well i just read it,its kind of cool i guess,i mean guy like who don know to love its really gd tips i guess anyone can read also and whoever in relationship or whoever wana be in relationship,can read this n apply in ur love life....its just a tips but honselty there shoul be loev in tere and in order to have that love in relatiosnhip,love more n don make silly mistakes,

Relationships are relentless. Think about it: for most of us, they begin at the end of a struggle – the struggle of searching for someone with whom we click. Then, just when we think the trouble is over, when we've found the one and life will be happily ever after, reality hits: love is work! The good news is there are skills you can learn that make the job easier – and a whole lot more rewarding!!

Whether you've been married for years, are considering a relationship or you're combing the scene as a single, remember these keys to romantic success:

You've got to talk!
Okay, so this is easier for women than it is for men – or so we think. The truth is, being open about the things that mean the most to us can be more difficult than we acknowledge. Sometimes, while men are loathe to blabber on about feelings and women seem to like to "talk" all the time (the phrase "honey we need to talk" comes to mind), when what a woman has to say may threaten the balance or cause a shift of any significance in her relationship, she'll clam up. We get nervous that by asking for what we want or need we're going to lose the man we love if what we say doesn't jive with him. Likewise, men tend to fear showing weakness – which they sometimes confuse with showing emotion – because they want their woman to feel safe. What's the end result of all this? Discontentment and resentment. The solution is simple: you've got to talk!

Before all the men out there go running for the hills, I'm not implying that you need to spend hours on the couch belaboring the way you felt last Tuesday when she snapped at you for not doing the dishes or hashing out your emotional growth from ages twelve to fourteen. I'm referring to the big things that affect your day to day and your future, individually and as a pair: hopes, dreams, fears, triggers. In short, if one person in a couple doesn't know how the other person is feeling or what their goals are, then there is no way that either person can expect to give – or get – what they need or want, never mind support in achieving goals or weathering tough times.

Learn the art of fighting
Choose your battles wisely – everything is not worth fighting for and if you let things escalate over minutia, the important issues won't hold the gravitas they deserve.

If things do get heated, never say anything intentionally cruel – you won't be able to take it back afterward. Learn to talk before things get to this stage (see previous).

Perhaps most importantly, since arguing sometimes is inevitable, know how to say you're sorry. The ability to see when you've been wrong – or even if you haven't been, when you've let something get the best of you – is invaluable. Think about it. A sincere apology goes a long way. Just remember it the next time you're experiencing similar feelings. And try to talk before things get that far!

Do things together... the couch doesn't count!
The couple that plays together, stays together. This doesn't mean you have to do everything as a team. In fact, individual activities and hanging out with friends are just as important as couple time if a relationship is to be successful. But that's another story (see below), and there's a balance.

What's vital in this instance is that as a couple, you spend time together doing things you both enjoy. This keeps things firey, gives you a shared ritual and sustains you when things are tough.

Of course, sex is an activity – and a super important one in any romantic relationship (note: physical contact is another key to success). But this connection has got to go beyond the bedroom. There's got to be some ground where you can be friends and moreover, partners in crime!

Don't forget who you are!
It's easy when we get into relationships to forget who we used to be, the things we liked to do, how we used to spend our time. But one of the most vital elements of a working partnership is that you maintain your individuality as part of a pair.

Think about this logically: in order to create one whole, you need two complete halves... otherwise, one or the other of you (most often both) is going to feel that something is missing.

No one person can be all things to you. What you do with your girlfriends cannot necessarily be what you do with your mate. But it's not necessary, and in fact, can be detrimental if you make your lover your everything. Identify the areas that are important to you – and know when to include him and when to go it alone or with someone else who's a part of your life!

Accept change.
Change is going to happen; it's a part of existence. This is why it's so very important that you genuinely like the person with whom you have settled down. It's not necessary that you like every single thing about them (in fact, that's probably impossible), but when it comes to the big things, you've got to want to encourage them. You've got to respect them. You've got to share in their wants, appreciate your differences and perhaps most importantly, you've got to show you care.

While the sparks may dwindle or at least periodically rise and fall as the years wear on, always show your partner affection. A kiss, a touch, a sweet word in the middle of a crowded room. Whatever you do, let him or her feel that you support the cause and trust that you're there for the long haul – even if things don't look exactly like either of you planned.

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what the hell...i have to do ppl's work..human or machine..both kevin n ganesan mc left with me...fool...yes im fool...i nvr really wanted to wrok for someone...but scared to explore for the money to start business...y i wana do eevryting on my own...even for studies i pay my money???ego..yeah thats the thing..i hosuld have been followed like my bro...took loan n study but thats haram in islam...and now all i can blame is i have to start savinsg again...sigh...hell man... from morning to now..do this do that...read kev's email as well as ganesan email...reply them..n hav to report to the Manger..what the...i cant be botherd ...what??? work so hard n promote myself in here????ya can but i shold be working for some comapnies like a dog..i nvr gave up on anything?...so busines thingy will wait..there i go again..my mistake always saying wait wait its not the time..bloody fool i can wait but time wont wait...i cant be botherd to thing of my mistakes..but only if my mom listend and allowed my studied in overseas after O level...wil i be this taste..going to poly is the bigest mistake i ever made..now regeret ??? cant be bothered also..ok quit poly..did they allow me to overseas...wheer i should have studied or should be doing the business im uncles doing now??NO...NOW REGRET?? CANT BE BOTHERED...or did i stick with my dad n took the money from him n opend the shop..did i did i..no i didnt i thought that's dad's hard work..lets do on something on our own..n now im saying its not the time.IM BOILING IN FUSTRATION....hiya i say cant be bothered in everything but i bother alot ..cuz life now is sucks n do my degree..ya allah i can admit myself in woodbridge.....n that boo pic already made me one kind...i don care i gona blog...opps im doing it now rite...

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ohhh man...ya allah..kami sis...u u u....hiyo...u turned my blog into boo blog isit?
i thought u were kinding??ohhh god...came to work n wanted to take a look at my blog...and im shell shocked man....booooo...booooo.....
Last nite went tharag but suprisingly saw zamira on the train....she's shocked to see me..its been 2 years..and the comments she made me...hmmm gd..thanks zam...she said i hav put on wt...thats not easy at all...she was goin to meet rashida another frind of mine...if zamira see my blog she gona curse me man...she is the one who created theblog skin....now its booo boo from kamilah sis..hahah...already kevin making fun of the pic in here....woah kami sis..u ah....shafik u don laugh seeing my blog....look at ur ladiki...what she done to my lovely blog..sob sob..im gona get it my own blog skin back:(..boo booo....go away from here...hahha actually i cant stop laughing also...thanks la kami sis...but no way i have to do something abt blog skin...

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Wednesday, April 19, 2006

hmmmm finalyy my blog has been edited nicely...all thanks to kami sis...i owe her a treat....actually thoought of deleting this blog...but nvm.....work stress man...damn stress...received gd news from my schl that i can actaully directly sit for Degree Course cuz i hav already achieved dip in accounst earliern to my known knowledge all relsuts are all B garde...its prety tough to achieve that....but im too confused...either take degree this year....or take licence..Bro just passed hi TP...its my turn now to get licence...whatever it is i hav to come up with my own money...sigh...im in sry state....or simply work n earn enough money n do something else...Wrost of all my next 2 final module will be starting next week n bloody hell its clashes on thursday,that means,my time in tharga gone be affected....but sill can go tere after 9.30,no probs init but cant take part in the dikir which will start after magrib prayer...tomorw hav to meet jai while traveling to work....ohhh man....stil hav to wake up 3am hahha the other day i woke up for prayer i fall from bed.....stylo...Bloody hell rizwan,he is the one whom been distrubing me with new hp number..argg so pissed of by him...nvm...childshood finds hav to be a bit naughty in oreder to make life interesting....he does hav alots of interesting stories to update...ahaha funny fellow..wan me to be business partner..but the hell with him he wants me to quit my current job im in and work with with him in the nite in his food business...thats stressfull life,but will consider for u man...but im suprised when he asked me to take over his transpport business provided i pay him 3k to settle of..well i can pay 3k...no prbs init...but licenece who give...my granpa isit..so told him wait for few months ...sucks i wasted money in studies should hav taken license long ago...when i drive in india its like i was the king of the road but in here so many rules...:(.....

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Tuesday, April 18, 2006

*~O Allah you are my Lord! None has the right to be worshipped but You. You created me and I am Your slave, and I am faithful to my covenant and my promise as much as I can. I seek refuge with You from all the evil I have done. I acknowledge before You all the blessings You have bestowed upon me, and I confess to You all my sins. So I entreat You to forgive my sins, for nobody can forgive sins except You*~

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Monday, April 17, 2006

hmmm yesterday rasool beevi's wedding.She didnt invited me maybe forget that i was in her same class for abt 3 years in secondray schl.Happy she got married,all the best in your life.Munirah sis who went for the wedding said she saw anand and other schlmates.Missing u guys.What munira said abt rahumath nisha was suprising n touching.Evryone hav to slaute that nisha gerl,her wding next month ending,There thi is gerl who is 22 n loves guy who is 33 and who is an hindu from JB.Well nisha proved love has no age limit or race,but what suprising is hat he converted the guy into islam n fougt hard for her marraige,thats very sweet indeed.Munisah was all praises abt nisha's guy.I nvr eard anyone who can be praised until like that from munirah expect her own guy.The guy is nice sweet caring n so on.When she said that my heart really sank,something like it torn into pieces,maybe of guiltY that i wasnt nice at all,that i nvr treat properly my loving ones,i know ima such an big failure,only an ask forgiveness nvr expect more than that.Munira said hr ex hav gf n changed alot for the gd,that's nice to hear,he ali n iskan all went in for roting n they spent 2.5 yars in tere now they all out,has life partner and working hard to setlle in life,wheni look at them im like nothing at all.....no point this guys telling me im nice felow n gd fellow.I bron to make mistakes n ask fr forgivenss maybe i hav done alots of sins.not maybe.but yes alots of sins,thats y im paying for it now.

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Sunday, April 16, 2006

...i went to mustafa instead of to sim lim to buy mouse for my pc....n walkd all the way to bugis to reach siti mariam tharga...spent abt 1 hour tere ...love to be tere on thursday...but i gues it wont hapen but nvm i love to be in siti sarefaah tharga also...ppl i mean my own frinds wondering y i spent so mcuh in tharga,well the reason is,its more peaceful in there to do dkir n read sura and yasin.Dead bored after that wnt back home and while alighting from mrt,i thought i saw anish,so i tured around n looked at her n to my suprise its haja n his fiancee,i men anish elder sister...i tried to call haja through hp n bloody hell my hp wasnt working at all...so fed up...but the funny thing ..haja invited me for his wedding n anish invited me for her sis wedding...so i gues i be attending the same wedding haha...called haja n he asking me to be there earlier on his wdding day...donkey standing beside the groom isit....haja u making big mistake...i can be helper but nvr be the groom's frind...late for gym...seee ya

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Saturday, April 15, 2006

Yesterday in Masjid Abdul Gafoor we had the Milavathu Villa for our beloved prophet mohamed saw(may peace be upon him).Asusal sha n ashraf went tere early.I took amjad to habib noor tharga after Asar prayer and had peaceful mind in there,as usual took an lovely rose from tere.After ishak prayer was the bayan in abdul gafoor mosque and the imam from india was so lovely,he was descrbing abt how oue beloved prophet mohamed saw looked like,from his hair lenghth to his teeth n his eyes,everything stood up among all the beautiful things in the world,yes indeed our beloved prophet mohamed saw (may peace be upon him) is the best creation of all mankin in this world,and no one and i mean no one is beautiful as he was as allah created him in his own taste.The imam rrecite the longest dua which i nver heared of in my life,if im not wrong few could actually cried hearing it.It end abt 11pm and amjad was dead tried as can see from his eyes.But he was actually sick of my mp3 as all the songs are sad songs but amjad has tuned into panai amjadkhan as listend n acted like GHANA ULAGANTHAN FROM THE SONG VALAMINUKUM...HAHHA.such an lovely day...i should be gratefull to allah to let me live another day to enjo those things...

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Thursday, April 13, 2006

Yesterday was 12th on te calender...hmm its the one of the lovelist day i could ever had in my entire life.No way i could forget tht day(12/02/06)...Its still running in my eyes,like watching a movie,amjad rushing to my work place,giving me t shirt n shaver to me make me look gd so on.It was an beautiful day to me.iTS THE BESCT JOY I EVER HAD IN MY LIFE.Sry cant explain more than that.To celebrate that i went to siti mariyam tharga in kallang to hav peaceful mind.Well i cant go tere on thursday but if thursday falls on 12th of th month then i hav no choce i be tere on thursday.After a while sat at the beach AND WOAH WAHT AN WONDERFUL VIEW OF THE SKY WITH THE FULL MOON SPARKLING UP TERE.iT WAS ROMANTIC INDEED and HAJA bro called me up,small bio data of him,my ns buddy,age 26,n met him recently in my reservist and excanged our new hp number.Te reason e called is awesome,he is gona marry on the june 11.Hhahah its love marrige,actually we saw the gerl in boon lay interchange during our recurit time n it was me wh encouraged me to go n talk to her and now after 4 years they are marring,thats very sweet of them but what more interesting is that the gerl side dint wanted hi but the gerl fought very hard n now...its ending in happy mood.I gave my word i be tere to help around in the wedding,,,insah allah i should be alive till then to attend the wedding.
Didnt sleep the whole nite,slept like 4 plus n woke up 5 plus,heart didnt wana rest in peace as well as the mind.Some kind of feeling that someone out there in this world is thinking abt me,but dont know who also...wierd feeling...

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Monday, April 10, 2006

Ya Mustafa
Mustafa, Mustafa, Mustafa.
Ya Mustafa ya Mustafa ya Mustafa
Allahumma salli 'alal Mustafa
(O Allah send your blessings on the Chosen One)
Mustafa Mustafa Mustafa

Solo
You’re our prophet,
Our beloved,
Truly you are,
Most just and kind (3)

Chorus
Allahumma salli 'alal Mustafa
Mustafa Mustafa Mustafa
Ya Mustafa ya Mustafa ya Mustafa
You’re the Guide
Sent by Allah
To lead us
Towards the light (3)

Chorus
In your manners
And in your deeds
All the Prophets
You did exceed (3)

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Its the special week,cuz its the month of our beloved prophet mohamed (saw) birth.On the 12th of april,thats the day he born,may allah saw forgive our sins upon him.As usual every year all the mossue has moulanth n bayan..where the talk abt our prophet mohamed saw n his life.I met ashraf in admirilty n went to Masjid Abdul Gafoor to meet majun n rizwan.Amjad didnt turn up as he was working.Ashraf planning to go nus but he's wooried abt his results in poly so i told him abt my idea of doing degree in SIM and he obligied to look into the degree cousres they provie...haiz i hope sim provide stduy plan,so i can enrol by june to do my degree.It's been sometime i met ashraf as he is still in NS.iTS SUNDAYAND AS USAL SERANGOON WAS SO CROWDED.That gundu majun late agian and only truned up after magrib prayer,followed by rizwan and his cousin.HAD A quick chit chat abt life and crapness.After ishak we sat for bayan,and what heard from the imam abt mohamed prophet saw life was really touching.What we going through and what our prophet mohamed saw went through cant be compared as well as kathija rali allah nachiar(our porphet mohamed saw 1st wife).Then 2 days ago went with amjad to buy mp3 player in funan and met shafik n kamilah sis,they elped me in choosing creative mp3 player...as i didnt wana buy too expensive...Then after they left me and majad strolled along the river side...amjad looked so pity saying im supposed to walk around with his gf...brough him to sha alam resturant...its amjad treat..1st time in his life man...i had gd feast with him while he was on the phone with sha....hey amjad $16.90 isnt alot rite...

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Sunday, April 02, 2006

I deticate this song to everyone in loove n successfully gona enter the married life...this the song i talked abt inm y previous blog...i hav a losuy voice...if im gd init..i will defintely sing this songs in everyone's marraige....love marriage....but my voice wasnt that gd....n this song played a great role in myself...wher i believed Love is something...sry ...i don know what to explain it...BUT I SCRIBLED THE LYRICS IN PAPER N USED TO MEMORISE N SING IT WHERE I WENT IN SEC 2...ITS PITY I DON KNOW TO HANDLE LOVE..
LOVE ISNT FOR EVERYONE,ITS FOR THE CHOOSEN ONE...Im nt the choosen one,n my fate doesnt goes in love cuz i don know to handle it .....but i will deticate this songs to all th ppl i knw...just imajine i singing this songs in ur marriages...

Anantham anantham padaum
Manam asayil unchalil adum
Ayiram ayiram kalam
Intha nyabaham poo malai thuvu

Katrile saral pola paduven
Kathalai padi padi valthuven
Nie varum pathayil pookalai poothirupen

Anantham anantham padaum
Manam asayil unchalil adum

Manathil nindra kathaliye manaiviyaga varum pothu
Sogam kuda sugam agum valkai inba varam agum
Un valvil selvangal ellam ondraga sernthida vendum
Poove un punnaiagay endrum santhosham thanthida vendum
Asai kathal kaigalil sernthal valve sorgam agume
Asai kathal kaigalil sernthal valve sorgam agume

Anantham anantham padaum
Manam asayil unchalil adum

Innum nuru jenmangal sera vendum sonthangal
Kathal oda vethangal ainthu endru solllungal
Then pothigai santhana katru un vasal vanthida vendum
Agaya gangaikal vanthu un nenjil pongida vendum
Kanda kanda kanavugal ellam nijamai indru anathe
Kanda kanda kanavugal ellam nijamai indru anathe

Anantham anantham padaum
Manam asayil unchalil adum
Ayiram ayiram kalam
Intha nyabaham poo malai thuvu

Katrile saral pola paduven
Kathalai padi padi valthuven
Nie varum pathayil pookalai poothirupen

Anantham anantham padaum
Manam asayil unchalil adum
Ayiram ayiram kalam
Intha nyabaham poo malai thuvu

hey guys love is pure feeling,i had it and missed it,but this shouldn happen in anyone's life,believe me,im more matured than b4 n realised how much to love a person n how its so painful now...i nvr experinecd this feeling ever n i don wana face this in future too...

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Saturday, April 01, 2006

Shafik & Kamilah
This special edition is for shafik bro and kamilah sis..Congrats to both of u all..happy that i know that ur Engagment is on this Septmber..how many years? almost 2years?hav to be cuz i still remebr shafik being with me in the NS...To be frank,i envy u guys.im really really sry for this.Shafik might be the nicest guy around and kamilah should be the coolest gerl around too.I knwo its not easy being in relationship and i do know that u guys hav fair share of misunderstaing as well as happiness.But you guys loved each other so much n still loving.I am so happy for you guys...insahallah everything will go as planned...i will doa as usual...Pls Pls invite me for your wedding.My schl frinds almost forget me but im not....hope u guys don also....Shafik u r really the luckiest guy cuz i don chat with u that much n i do get the chnace to chat with kamilah sis n i know how much she in love with you..thats means u really treats her nicely....i salute u bro....always cheer up n smile n hav beautiful life ahead...

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